The 3 Rule

The "Rule of 3 for dogs" is a guideline for the adjustment period after adopting a dog, especially a rescue. It suggests a timeframe of 3 days for initial decompression, 3 weeks to learn routines and start bonding, and 3 months for the dog to feel truly comfortable and settled in their new home. This rule helps owners set realistic expectations and provides a roadmap for patience, positive reinforcement, and creating a safe, consistent environment to build trust and a strong bond with their new dog. 

1. First 3 Days (Decompression) 

What to Expect: Your dog will likely be overwhelmed, stressed, scared, and disoriented. They may hide, be very cautious, and even have accidents in the house or crate. 

How to Help:

•   Provide a calm, quiet, safe space. 

•   Establish a consistent routine for feeding, walking, and potty breaks. 

•   Give them space and don't force interactions. 

•   Be patient and positive. 

2. Next 3 Weeks (Learning the Routine)

What to Expect: Your dog will begin to feel more comfortable, understand the household routine, and may start to show their true personality. They'll also begin to trust you more. 

How to Help:

• Continue with a consistent routine. 

•   Begin basic obedience and positive reinforcement training. 

•   Gently work on introducing them to new people and other household members. 

•   Be consistent with house rules and boundaries. 

3. First 3 Months (Feeling at Home)

What to Expect: Your dog will start to feel secure and truly settled in their new environment. This is when you'll see their full personality emerge and a deep, trusting bond will develop. 

How to Help:  

• Gradually introduce more adventures, new environments, and social experiences. 

•   Continue to provide love, training, and consistency. 

•   Enjoy your growing bond and the confident, relaxed companion they are becoming. 

Key Takeaway

•   It's a guideline, not a strict rule: Every dog is unique, and their adjustment period may   be faster or slower than the 3-3-3 timeline. 

•   Patience is crucial: Building trust and a strong bond takes time and understanding. 

•   Consistency is key: A predictable routine and clear expectations help a new dog feel secure and learn the rules of their new home.